UPDATE

So, the dr's went well, except for the fact that the appointment was at 2pm, and it's just the WORST time of day for Ayana, so needless to say she was a bit of a nightmare most of the visit. Anywho. As for her attachment stuff, the doc said that she really was not that concerned, and that if I had told her there were NO attachment issues she would be worried. She said that transitional attachment confusion (which is what we are dealing with) is very normal for adopted kids, and that if I continue doing what I am doing (and what our family is doing) she will likely adjust just fine. However, if I am still concerned she gave me the contact for the child psychologist that deal with adoption attachment and I can call them and get an appointment to see where we are at. I am going to call, but feel a lot better about everything. She said, and I've read, that adopted kids (even if they are babies at the time of placement) are still trying to get their heads around "if this person leaves, are they coming back?" or "this person is coming back now, are they going to leave again?" And I totally get that. So, we'll keep doing what we are doing, and I'll keep reading and doing our little excercises and carrying her a lot etc. She is growing well, and developmentally doing great. She was not even concerned about her language as Ayana says 10 words which is very on track for her age. Albiet the lower end, but she's still on the track!

Regan's cell phone went thru the wash AND the dryer. Yikes! I always tell him HE has to be the one to check his pants BEFORE he puts them in the hamper or on the laundry pile!!!! Ergo how both of our passports went thru the wash a few years ago!!!! I'm hoping once it dries out it will work again. If it does, that would be a miracle. And on a side note... I FOUND MY LULU LEMON PANTS!!! Yay!!! They were under an afghan! Who knew?

Have a great Monday night!